Chapter 13 Another Marriage
Tim and Melody in 1954 | |
Melody, Tim, and I moved back
with my parents which put a hardship on them. I got a job at Miller
Drug Store on the corner of Overland and 13th Street,
right across the street from JC Penny's. Melody was eight years old
and Tim was six. Daddy baptized and confirmed Melody into the Church
at the Unity Ward on August 27, 1954.
One
day as I was working, Mary Buttars came into the store. I had known
her previously from teaching primary. She asked me all kinds of
questions about myself. The next thing I knew, her single stepson
came in the store to look me over. I guess he liked what he saw
because later her asked me out. Most of our dates consisted of
spending time at his parents home, watching boxing matches. His name
was Gordon Buttars.
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Gordon placing the ring on my finger |
In
1954 Gerald was called to serve a mission in the Central Atlantic
States Mission. Verlynn was born while he was on his mission.
Verlee and Verlynn had to move in with the folks and I had to move
out! I had only been single since the end of June. On Sunday,
September 19th Gordon asked my Dad for my hand in
marriage. We were married September 22, 1954 at 8:00 p.m. in my
parent's front room by Bishop Morris Baker. His father, Gover
Buttars, and my mother were our witnesses. Our wedding guests
consisted of our parents, Verlee, Melody, and Tim, I don't remember
any one else being there. Gordon said that he either had to buy a set
of rings or a dishwasher and he thought he could get more use out of
the set of rings! We went to Salt Lake City for our Honeymoon to see
the Ice-Escapades, Gover and Mary went with us.
Gordon
Gover Buttars was born on July 1, 1918 in Clarkston, Utah. His mother
died when he was only two years old. His father remarried after a
couple of years and in 1929 they moved to Burley. Just prior to the
outbreak of World War II he enlisted in the Navy and was at Pearl
Harbor on that fateful day. During the war he served aboard the USS
Enterprise which participated in every major battle in the Pacific.
When the war was over he was a nervous wreck. He had been married
twice before, once before the war and once after.
Our home on the Gee place (510 S 150 E) | |
Mother
and Daddy helped me move into Gordon's home in Unity where he was
renting the Gee farm. On Thanksgiving day we fixed dinner for both
sets of parents. He was a very good farmer and could make anything
grow. Newel Baker hired him to run his farm up the road a couple of
miles away, along with farming the Gee place.
Daddy
was stricken by his first stroke in April of 1955 while in the barn
milking the cows. Melody was out there at the time and walked in the
barn and found him stricken. He was rushed to the hospital where he
remained for several weeks. He was devastated because he wasn't able
to do the things that he was used to doing. He worked very hard to
get the use of his hand back. Kenneth and Don ran the place the rest
of that year. The next year Irma and Don moved to Idaho Falls. A
year or two later, Mother and Daddy had a new home built on the hill
above the pasture on the river bottoms.
Tim and Melody with Old Nick | |
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Gordy at 2½ weeks old |
While
living in Unity, little Gordon Gene was born. A very special Father's
Day gift for Gordon. We called him Little G.G. or sometimes Gordy.
Mary and Gover were there the day that he decided to come forth. He
was born on Sunday June 19. 1955 at 3:45 p.m. in the afternoon at the
Cottage Hospital. He was delivered by Dr. Sutton and weighed 7 pounds
1 ounce and was 19½ inches long. He was his Daddy's boy right from
the start. Melody and Tim loved having a new little brother and
living on a farm with farm animals and a big black dog named Nick to
play with.
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The Buttars place (50 E 100 S) |
The
Buttars had bought a house in town and decided to sell their farm to
us. So we moved into their place 1 mile South a ½ mile east of
Burley in 1956. I really liked it there. It was here that I caught
little G.G. just as he placed a very large black stink bug in his
mouth and crunched down. I was only able to retrieve a portion of
it. It didn't seem to make him sick, but it sure did me.
Our home in Salt Lake | |
We
lived there one year and in the spring he had the ground ready to
farm. Mary and Gover decided they didn't like living in town and
wanted the place back. We had a farm sale and sold all the farm
equipment. We packed up and moved to South Salt Lake City to the
Sugar House District. Our address there was 1350 E. 27th
S. We lived in a very nice brick duplex with a fenced in backyard for
the children. Gordon enrolled in the Philips Petroleum Co. School to
learn the service station business.
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Cindee 1 day old |
I
was expecting at the time and
was having problems with this pregnancy also. This little child kept
wanting to be born before her time. I went to the Hospital three
times before it was her time to arrive. When she finally decided to
Our Family – July 1957: Melody, me holding Cindee, Gordon and Gordy, and Tim | |
come, she was almost born in the car. We got in the hospital just as
she came screaming into this world. She was born at the L.D.S.
Hospital June 2, 1957, at 12:02 a.m. She was 7 pounds 2½ ounces and
21 inches long. She was delivered by Dr. Hall. I named her Cindee.
Cindee was born with red hair that turned blond. Her little nose was
pushed to one side but it soon straightened out. She was a
beautiful baby. At the time, Gordon was 39 years old and I was 31.
She was blessed by Earl Read, her uncle, on July 8th into
the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints at the Imperial-West
Ward, Wilford Stake Salt Lake City, Utah. Cindee was the only one of
my children was not born in Burley, Idaho.
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The bear that came to breakfast |
Just
after Cindee was born we went to Yellowstone Park with Cecil and
Claris Toner and their kids, we even camped out that time. We were
cooking breakfast over some kind of grill, Cecil was cooking bacon
and hot cakes or something that smelled really good. Good enough to
attract a big old bear. As he came toward us, I grabbed my kids and
put them in the car. That old bear came right up to our table, Cecil
hit him on the nose with the pancake turner he was using, and the
bear shook his big old head and turned around and went back down the
hill with a very disappointed look on his face. Gee, maybe it was a
Mrs. bear, but whatever it gave us some excitement for a while.
I
had many good times living in Salt Lake, Thelma and Jay and their
little family lived there. Eunice and Earl were living in Provo.
Thelma and I spent a lot of time together. Our little children played
together, Gayle being just 3 months older than Melody and Jaylynn was
4 months older than Gordy.
The Frost Family - 1957. Standing: Lorna, Eunice, Gerald, Marian, and Irma. Seated: Me, Daddy, Mother, Thelma, and Kathryn |
Our home in Ogden | |
Buttars 66 | |
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The view from our home in Ogden |
While
Gordon was in training he met Neil Hart from Rexburg, Idaho who was
also going through the program. We became good friends to Neil and
and his wife, Shirley. In August of 1957 Gordon finished his Philips
66 training and was ready for his own station. We moved to the north
end of Ogden, Utah. Our address there was 555 S 5th St. We
lived on a good street with good neighbors and lots of children to
play with ours. There too we also had a nice fenced in backyard. Neil
got a station in Burley, Idaho of all places and later in Rexburg.
On
August 30, we had our big grand opening of our Philips 66 gas station
on Washington Blvd. It was a brand new station and on a very busy
street which brought in a fair amount of business. He hired a young
man and later another older fellow.
In
the Spring of 1958 Gordon was not happy being away from the farm so
he sold the station and we moved back to Burley into a little shack
of a house that we rented from Bingham's just about a half mile from
the Pella Church. It was not a good place!!! I did what I could to
make it a home. We lived there only one year. I was so thankful when
we were able to move from there. Gordon was renting a farm from
Trummals a few miles south of there. We had to buy all new farm
machinery as everything had been sold in the farm sale. Melody was in
the 7th grade at Burley Jr High. The Utah schools were
ahead of Idaho's and she couldn't keep up, so she went back to the
6th grade at the Miller School. When we moved back to
Burley, Little G.G. said, “we left G.G. in Ogden, I am Gordy”.
He would never answer to G.G. after that.
My kids in1958 |
Melody - age 12½
| Tim - age 11
| Gordy - age 3
| Cindee - age 1 |
The Hitt place (100 W 500 S) | |
In
the fall of 1958 we bought the Hitt Farm just a mile south of where
we were living. We moved into the house and Gordon got the fall work
done and was all ready for spring. During the winter the deal fell
through. So we had to move again. This time to the Story farm, still
in Pella on the same road as the Gee place. It was a tall two story
house the kids always called the “Gick House”. Rented farms
didn't come with very nice houses. We lived there for 6 years, and
had good times and bad times. I tried again to make the best of a not
so great home.
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The Story place (550 S 150 E) |
There
was an old chimney on the north side of the house. It wasn't used for
anything except a beehive. One day I had sprayed the house for flies
and we all went out on the lawn while the fumes cleared. The kitchen
window next to the chimney was open a crack. The spray made the bees
sick and a we were attacked by a swarm of mad bees. Everyone was
stung but Gordy.
Daddy and Mother, after Daddy had another stroke | |
There
was a big 7.5 earthquake that took place August 17, 1959 at about
11:37 p.m. Just before midnight we got a rude awaking as the whole
house shook. The quake's center was in Montana just above the Idaho
Montana border and close to Yellowstone Park. The quake caused a
mountain landslide that buried a whole campsite taking the lives of
27 people and dammed off the Madison River forming Earth Quake Lake.
It was felt as far away a Salt Lake City and even Boise Idaho. We
certainly felt it in Burley It shows just how powerful Mother Nature
can be.
An
event that was part of the times were the atomic bomb tests in the
Nevada desert. I remember on at least one occasion that as a family
we went outside in the per-dawn darkness and saw the southwestern sky
aglow from one of the detonations.
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Me and my kids- 1959. Tim, Cindee, Melody, and Gordy |
Sputnik | |
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The launch of Friendship 7 & John Glenn |
In
October of 1957 we would go out at night and sit on the hood of the
car and watch the Russian satellite, Sputnik as it circled the earth
every 90 or so minutes. It was really spooky to think that man could
actually invade outer space. To me that is God's space. It was only
a few years later as we watched the launch of Freedom 7 which took
Alan Shepard, the first American to go into space, on a fifteen
minute sub-orbital space flight on May 5, 1961. Prior to that launch
there had been several unmanned test flights.
Television
was just coming of age. For better or worse, it was the world's most
powerful, influential and immediate medium of mass communication.
Television enabled people across the globe to witness events as they
happened. We are able to watch all these amazing history making
events take place right from our living room. In 1962 we watched John
Glen circle the earth three times. It was so awesome to see these
space flights take off into outer space and to land again.
Gordy started first grade at
the brand new Dworshak Elementary School in the fall fall of 1961.
Connie at 5 weeks old | |
We
were expecting our third child in 1961 and once again I was having a
difficult pregnancy. This child just like Melody, and Cindee wanted
to be born before her time. I could not even sweep the floor without
going into labor. Dear Shirley Hart was the only one that came to
help me. With rest and a very expensive pill I was able to keep her
until her time. Then she didn't want to come. I think she thought if
you wouldn't let me come when I wanted to, you can just wait until I
get darn good and ready to come. So it took another expensive pill to
get her here.
Friday,
September 29, 1961 Connie was born at 5:22 p.m. at the Cassia
Memorial Hospital. She weighed 6 pounds and 15 ounces and was 19
inches long. Connie was so precious, right from her heavenly home
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Gordy and Cindee feeding some bum lambs |
into ours! When I got home from the hospital I was very, very
depressed!!! The house was a mess, I had to get dinner for the
family, no one came to help me. Melody and Tim helped what they
could. Poor little Melody was 14 and she felt very picked on because
she had to do so much of the work and most of the dishes. (No
dishwasher then.) I felt so very bad for her but none of my sisters
or no one from the ward offered us any help. Connie was blessed into
the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints by her Grandfather
Frost on November 5, 1961. Gordon was my only normal birth.
In
the fall of 1962 Gordon went into the sheep business as well.
Eventually, he built up to a very large herd. When the little lambs
came in the springtime, it delighted the kids. They loved bottle
feeding the bum lambs and making pets out of them.
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