Chapter 28 More
of the Mighty Nineties
Continuing
with the Mighty Nineties, as 1991 came with its own stories, and like
each of us, a new beginning comes with each new year. Some good,
some bad. The very bad for 1991 was that the Iraqi War started with
ground action on January 17th causing
thousands of our young men and woman to go into battle,
losing so many of them as they perished for our country.
Tim's furry little buddy | |
The
Good! Tim had his 43rd birthday on
January 12th. When
we moved from Ogden, Utah back to Burley, Tim was eleven years old.
As I was getting rid of things we didn't need any more, out went
Tim's teddy bear
that I had made him years ago. Tim was very upset about losing his
furry little buddy, but it was gone! So for
his 43rd birthday, I
made him a new one as near like his old buddy as I could, even to the
way he was dressed. I couldn't have given him anything better. Here
this big over grown sheriff's deputy
took his new furry buddy to the office and announced, “Look what I
got for my birthday!”
The
Bad! On Super Bowl Sunday, Connie made a touch-down by over correcting and
ran her car into her neighbor’s field. Thanks for the miracle; as
her car was totaled she survived with minor injuries. Her guardian
angel was riding with her that day. She got a brand new Toyota 4
Runner four wheel drive out of it.
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Aren't opossums ugly critters? |
More
Bad! Well here is what you have been waiting for! “Opossum Episode
II.” On January 24th after working
a double shift, Jack got home about 1:00 a.m.. He came in the back
door as usual and for no reason he walked towards our office room
and in the partial darkness he saw something move. He turned on the
light and Mr. Opossum scampers up the recliner chair and onto the
drapes and climbed right to the top. Jack put on his leather gloves
and caught him by the tail and outside he went. I don't know if he
learned to fly in this second lesson, if it was the same feller as
before, but he cleared our fence by 8 feet, back into the woods
where he belonged.
This
time we found out how he got in. The earthquake had caused a small
section of insulation on the bottom of our mobile home to fall down.
After finding a small hole in the skirting to get under the house,
he found a way to get into the cold air return which brought him
to a register which, when the new carpet was put down they failed to
fasten down the registers. By pushing it up, it
was able to get into the house. But to his demise the first time, the
register fell back down in place and he was trapped. He could not
return from whence he came. The second time Jack caught him in the
act! Remedy: All registers were screwed down.
Our front steps, Christmas 1994 | |
For
the rest of the year it was all good, no more bad!
There was a young fellow whose mother lived in the park just down the
street from us. He had done her place in the most beautiful
brickwork. So we wanted the same thing done. We got a hold of him and
a deal was made. Then he disappeared for six months or so. We
spotted him having a beer with the neighbor so we got in touch with
him again. He was probably in the slammer (excuse me, I meant jail)
the deal was renewed and carried out; it took forever as he kept
disappearing for days at a time. We designed and drew it out the way
we wanted it done. Ken was very precise, one night we saw him
standing out in the rain watching to determine the flow of the water
as we were on a small incline. He added his own ideas as he went
along. With all the work we had done and now this lovely new
brickwork. The end results were much more beautiful than I could have
possibly dreamed.
So
now this princess and her handsome middle aged prince had their
beautiful rebuilt “castle” and a nice “carriage” and “lovely gardens”
in the “Beautiful Land of Aptos by the Sea”. What else could
they want? Servants? No! Did they live happily ever after?
You-bet-cha!!!
Living
in a wooded area, I have another animal story for you. Okay? One
night in May after I had gone to bed, Jack heard a noise outside, so
he investigated. Without too much effort he found that a small skunk
had gotten into our garbage can and was unable to get out, he just
left it for the night. The next morning he checked and found it
asleep under a garbage bag, so he put the lid on and fastened it down
good with bungee cords and put it in the back of the truck and took
him down the road near the dump. The can had tipped over and rolled
around. That would not make a happy skunk. Jack took it out of the
truck and set it down very carefully took the lid off. Expecting the
worst, he came right out and ran off. He didn't get sprayed, but the
little stinker left his calling card. I had to wash Jack's clothes
and we had to get a new garbage can. That was the latest but not the
last of our animal ordeals.
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My glass flowers |
The
day before Mothers Day, Nancy Kloepfer who lived just up the road on
Freedom Boulevard called to see if I wanted to go to a glass blowing
demonstration with her and three other friends that morning in
Davenport, north of Santa Cruz. It sounded like fun to me. We all
really enjoyed it. They really made some beautiful glassware. After
seeing how it is made, no wonder it costs so much. As the
demonstration ended they gave each of the mothers a beautiful glass
flower. We went two different years and I still have my glass
flowers. On the way back we stopped at a grand opening of a brand new
State Park (after the quake) but the entrance fee was more than we
wanted to pay so we didn't stay.
Michael Dudley | |
On
May the 23rd Jack took me to the
airport for a flight to Salt Lake and on to Twin Falls and to
Burley. I got in on a lot of events while on this trip. First
was Michael Dudley's graduation, the first of our grandchildren
to graduate from High School. He graduated with honors from Minico
High School on May 28th.
I was proud of him because all through school he had not done his
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Mother on her 90th birthday |
best and finally his senior year he woke up to what he was capable of
doing. On September 7th he inlisted
in the Army and was stationed at Fort Hood, Texas.
We
had a birthday open house for our dear mother on the first day
of June as she turned 90 years old on the fourth. It was held
at the Burley Care Center south dining room. She looked radiant,
happy, and beautiful as so many of her family were there to honor
her. All of her children were there and most of her grandchildren
and great-grandchildren.Also there were her sisters and sisters-in-law
who were still living, as she out lived most of them. It was a
beautiful day and I am so happy that I was able to be there. She
had been living there since 1989. She had got to where she was
unable to care for herself. It was not easy for her at first,
but she soon loved living there. It was a very special day.
The
next day I went to church with Gordon and Bonnie in her parent's ward
in Rupert and had dinner with them afterwards. That afternoon I went
with Gordon and Bonnie to put flowers on the graves of Vance and his
dad. Livi had an upset stomach from eating too much jello and threw
up on the side of the lane near his grave. We then took a ride over
to Shoshone Falls, but there was very little water going over. After
a busy afternoon they dropped me off at Connie's around nine o'clock.
Among
other things while in Burley, I got to watch Kyle play little league
baseball. He was a very serious little player. I flew back on June
the 6th, Jack picked me up in San Jose at 6:30 pm. I was
glad to be home.
I
was really enjoying the summer with my swim aerobics, walking, and
art lessons, I really missed those special activities while I was off
to Burley, but made up for it with family. Did I say there was no
more bad news? I was wrong. It all came to a halt when I sprained my
ankle. It was so stupid. I had been sitting reading a book and fell
asleep and woke myself up by my own snoring. I jumped up and started
to walk and felt the worse pain and fell to the floor. Jack heard the
noise and came in to see me wallowing all over the floor. I guess my
foot had gone to sleep along with me and when I jumped up on it
probably sprained my ankle. That is the only explanation I could come
up with.
Thin tastes so good! | |
Jack
took me to the doctor and X-rays showed no broken bones. He bound it
up good and put me on crutches and told me to elevate it for ten
days. That didn't go to well; I can't just sit and do nothing. Since
I am already a cripple, on Monday I went in and had some bone spurs
removed from both of my big toes. I forgot and took aspirin the night
before which caused extra bleeding. Besides that, the doctor started
slicing my toe before it was numbed, that really smarted and I really
yelled!!!
At
last, after 4 months of dieting and 3 weeks of stabilizing, I was
finally at my goal weight! I had lost 37¾ pounds and 49 inches just
in time for my class reunion. “Nothing tastes as good as being thin feels”.
Vacation
time came again and there was a lot to do in Burley. My 45th
class reunion was held July 27th
at the Elks Lodge. We had a very good dinner at 7:00, catered by Price's
Cafe. There were only 55 that attended. So many of the kids from
Burley didn't bother to go. Out of a graduating class of 120 and 22
classmates deceased, that wasn't a very good showing. But those of
us that did had a great time getting reacquainted. The high school
snobs had come down to earth and were
just like the rest of us. After a slide presentation, and remarks and
a few jokes, all that kind of stuff, we had pictures taken and then
got down to business and danced to live music until 12:00 pm. I
was glad that I was there, I have so many friends form school days.
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An example of some of the dancers |
On
August 1st, between the two reunions,
we went to Rexburg for a few days and stayed with Gordon, Bonnie, and
their children. We attended the International Folk Dance Festival,
among other fun things. I had heard about how beautiful and colorful these
dancers were for years and really wanted to get to see their performance. It was
beyond my expectation. I wanted to see them every year, but I wasn't so lucky.
Our
Frost Family Reunion was very special that year. It was titled: “Happy
Birthday Ira! A Century of Frosts” in honor of Daddy's 100th
birthday. This time we had to travel to Salt Lake. Eunice and Thelma
were in charge. On Friday evening we met at an LDS Church, where they
had set up wonderful displays of Daddy
through the years. After light refreshments we went to the Kearns
Recreational Center where all the swimmers hit the pool. On
Saturday morning we met at Salt Lake Big Cottonwood Stake Park for
breakfast and “all” ball games, you could play any one you were
best at. Dinner was at 1:00 with melodrama, skits and the famous
raffle followed. There was 99 Frosts there. We stayed with Thelma and Jay
until time to head for Burley to go to the fair.
While
on this vacation we also got in on Bradley and Raquel Turner's
wedding in the Logan Temple on August 9th.
Then RJ and Shauna Lindsay's wedding in the Boise Temple on August 16
th.
After
the reunions was the Cassia County Fair with the parade and rodeo. I
was always glad when we were able to get in on all that excitement.
Bumming around the fairgrounds with my sisters and kids, everybody
goes to the fair and I ran into so many friends and people that I
hadn't seen since who knows when. I always loved the rodeo, most of
the time in the later years we went with Lorna and Kenneth. I still
think the Cassia County Fair and Rodeo is the very best. I still
head for the scone booth and Jack for the corn on the cob.
Just
before we had to leave for home, Mother, my sisters, and daughters
helped me celebrate my 65th birthday.
We gathered out to Lorna's. Verlee made a birthday cake and there was
ice-cream and fun. I enjoyed seeing so many of my friends that I
hadn't seen for so many years. Donna Gooch, Marjorie Bunn, Helen
Wixom, and LaPreal Boyce (Marj and Helen I had just seen at the class
Reunion. I forget their married names) and I had some phone calls
from others. It was so nice. We really did have a good vacation.
The first of my collection | |
Jack
returned to work on the 10th,
and I got back into my usual every day duties. On September 13th
Jack flew to Minneapolis to meet with his siblings, Al and Pat to
celebrate their dear Aunt Rhoda's 95th
Birthday. He had a great time with his cousin, Rhoda and her
family and with George, Becky and the boys. They went to Stillwater
and Jack bought me my first Santa Clause that started my collection.
Since I had been left behind, he didn't want to come home empty handed.
One
Friday evening the ward had a dinner and program. Would you believe
that Jack and I put on a little skit? I had never done that in my
life. It was titled “The Prayer.” It
went like this: the curtains opened; I walked out to the middle of
the stage to a bench, wearing a long old fashion night gown holding
an old fashion candle stick. I knelt down at the bench and started
praying. Jack was hidden behind the curtain with a microphone, and
kept interrupting my prayer. He was playing
the part of God, so he and I were having a fiery conversation. At
the end Jack came out from behind the curtain wearing a sign around
his neck saying “GOD”. The whole thing was really cute, everyone
seemed to enjoy it. The Stake President told the Bishop, “If I had
known you had invited God, I would have dressed better.”
I
neglected my guest book the first part of the year, but it would be
very unusual if we had no guests all that time. Bob and Anne Rogers
are the first listed, as they were there September 27th.
Then Lorna and Kenneth came November 17-18-19.
We
celebrated our 13th
wedding anniversary on November 25th.
We had Thanksgiving dinner on the 27th
and left for Burley on the 28th
for our annual Frost Christmas Dinner. Marian and Doug hosted it in
their home in Malta. She had everything just beautiful as is one of
her many talents. Kathryn was pouring water and not paying attention
poured water all over Marian’s beautiful table. We all got a good
laugh at Kathryn’s embarrassment. The dinner was wonderful, gift
exchange and just being together as a family. We stayed overnight
with them as did some of the others. We got up to a wonderful
Malta breakfast before leaving for home. We tried always to hold our
dinners as close to the first of December as possible.
By
this time in our lives we had decided it was time to get out of
California, it had gotten to where we could no longer afford to live
in there. Jack was planning on retiring before too long. We had
decided on Boise, as I had lived there many years before and liked
it. I did not want to move back to Burley because of the windy, foul
weather. While in Idaho that December we drove to Boise to look for a
new home. Having no idea of finding anything that soon. We stayed
with LaPreal and Herald Hull for a couple of days (as they were now
living in Boise). We picked up a book of “Homes for Sale by
Owners”. LaPreal showed us different homes in the nicer areas.
Looking through the book we found a home listed that looked like us.
Finding the address we drove by to find it in a very nice cul-de-sac
in a nice neighborhood. No one was at home so we called and made an
appointment to see the house on Sunday morning. It was a very cold
December morning but the sky was brilliant with sunshine. We liked
what we saw. It lacked a couple of things that I had hoped for in a
new home, but made up in many other ways. It was filled with sunshine
from all the large windows on the south. We both really liked it and
the price was right.
So
that cold Sunday morning we got in the car and headed back to
California. Before we got to Ontario, Oregon we had made up our minds
that we were going to go for it! We got home and after sleeping on
it, we called the owner, Barbara Martin, and told her of our
intentions of buying. She suggested we get information from
Washington Federal Savings and Loan. We contacted a local office and
found them very nice to deal with. So after wheeling and dealing, we
closed the deal in March of 1992. I started wondering if we could
have done better, but that thought left my mind about as sudden as it
entered.
When
we told Clyde about the move, he was upset about losing us, but when
we mentioned to him that he might think about moving also, as he had
no one there and owned no property, he liked the idea.
Back
in Aptos I was anxious and excited about so many things; we
celebrated Jack's 65th
Birthday. We always take each other out to a special restaurant for
birthdays. I went ahead and decorated our castle for Christmas,
The new brick front steps looked really pretty with poinsettias on
each step. We enjoyed the annual Christmas events. Had another
stay-at-home Christmas and New Years. John and Jackie was there the
day after Christmas and Bob and Anne the day after that. Thus ends
the second year of the Mighty Nineties!
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