Chapter 32 Once Upon a Time
I
thought those were wonderful words as I continue my journey though
life. “Once upon a time” promises a story of adventure and
romance; an ongoing story of a princess and a knight. It may include
tales of courage, hope and everlasting love. But perhaps most of
all, I hope when you turn to the final line and your eyes see the
enchanting words “And they lived happily ever after”.
We
had a nice New Years dinner that included Clyde to start out a bright
hopeful New Year, 1995. On the 17th we had a late
Birthday dinner for Tim.
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Kyle and Kellie with one of the ice sculptures |
Losing
my dear mother so recently, I reflect on how grateful I am that God
choose to give me to her. I reflect on her love for each one of her
children. She always put us first, no matter what. I remember the
teachings she taught us, that we are daughters of the Living God.
She taught me honesty, to cook and sew, to work and to play. I think
of her every day of my life.
Connie,
Kellie & Kyle I went to the McCall Ice Sculptures. This was my
third year. Each year is like going for the first time. It is
“enchanting” to see all those beautiful snow white giants looming
in the sunshine. We certainly did enjoy our day there. That was the
last time that I went.
While
we were in the Bishops office for tithing settlement at the end of
the last year, the bishop asked if we would consider going on a
mission. That was the farthest thing from my mind. The thought of
knocking on doors and all that goes along with missionary work
frightened me to death. We were not in a financial situation to
support a mission. The only thing I could come up with was, “Well
maybe one where we could live at home”. I was thinking of a service
mission. Bishop Holderness wasted no time! On January 22, 1995 we
were both set apart as Stake Missionaries. Not the service mission I
had in mind. This took great courage for me!
We
have had numerous callings in all the wards that we have lived in. My
first calling in the 28th Ward was Sunday School Secretary
shortly after moving here. I really enjoyed that position as it gave
me the opportunity to learn the member’s names and put families
together. I hated giving that calling up to become a stake
missionary, but we do what we have to do.
Andy Flores, the Moores, us, and seated Noel Janko | |
There
wasn’t too much knocking on doors, but a sprinkle of it. But it did
include a lot of meetings. A stake meeting every Sunday afternoon
was the one we were expected to attend! When Clyde heard that, he
was not one bit happy. There went his free Sunday dinners. At our
first meeting we met all the other stake missionaries from the
various wards and the stake mission presidency that we would be
working under. It took a lot of faith and prayer for me to get
through the next two years.
We
worked with some wonderful people, especially co-missionaries, the
Moore’s, Clark and Diann and Andy and Peggy Flores, and Grace and
Noel Janko from our ward. I mentioned Noel in another chapter as the
Jewish convert.
We
loved working with the young elders; we feed them a lot of dinners
which included Clyde. They were so young, spiritually enthusiastic
and fun to be with. Jack took them to most of their meetings and
appointments. We helped them out with followup investigators. It was
such a thrill when we had baptisms. We held a lot of missionary
meetings in our home plus some dinners and parties. At Christmas
time both years I made giant Christmas stockings for each of the
Elders and had the Relief Society sisters help fill them. On
Christmas Day we had them over for dinner and gave them their
stockings. That was so much fun; they acted just like little kids on
Christmas morning. We loved all of our Elders and as they filled
their missions and returned home and married, we got invitations to
their weddings. It was a great time in my life, I did grow
spiritually and my testimony was strengthened, but I feel that I
could have done more.
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Jack and I as stake Missionaries |
Our
grandson, Mark Dudley at the age of 15 came down with a very rare
condition called “Guillian Bairre Syndrome”. It came on him all
of a sudden one Sunday evening around the first of April. His legs
were paralyzed and he could not stand. As he lay on the floor his
dad thought he was acting up, but soon found it was very serious and
gave him a priesthood blessing. He was taken to the emergency room
and from there rushed to the hospital in Twin Falls. This Syndrome
paralyzes the whole body very quickly and mostly the lungs. If not
put on a respirator very soon it will kill the patient. Mark was
very blessed, as the first Doctor he saw had seen it once before and
recognized it. He acted upon it very quickly that saved Mark's life.
I drove to Twin Falls to see him one day. It took him a very long
time to recover.
Kellie
and Kyle came and stayed during Spring Break, Cindee also came about
that time. Even though we were missionaries we made time for family
and friends. And we did have a lot of company. My guest book is full,
a big share is related to our missionary work, feeding the young
Elders and holding meetings here. We also had a lot of family members
come during that time period. It seemed to be our missionary work
was slow but did move forward. The fulltime missionaries had just
started teaching a new family. We only had two full time missionaries
for the Stake that covered six wards but with all the new housing
that was being built in our area we got new members and even
converts.
In
August we met Connie and the kids at a junction just before Hailey
and followed them to the Uriguen’s summer home in Ketchum. Connie
was dating Frank Uriguen at time. Since his mother’s death, and
Frank and Connie’s subsequent marriage, they own the house but as
of 2011 we have never been invited back. We stayed there for three
days and three nights. The home was so lovely. What a great vacation
that turned out to be; just loafing and sightseeing and having fun
with Connie and the children, running around Ketchum, Sun Valley and
Hailey with all the wealthy people was exciting.
We
were surprised to see Roger, LeeAnn, Brad and Raquel Turner peeking
in a store window at us. They knew we were there but we didn’t know
they were. What fun. All good things seem to never last long enough,
it was so beautiful there. We took the mountain route going home, it
too was very beautiful and our bonus was seeing a cub bear in the
middle of the road. In all of our mountain travels through the years,
it was the first time we saw a bear in the wild outside of
Yellowstone Park.
It
seemed like we didn’t stay home long enough to get very much
missionary work done. Our Mission Leader was beside himself. He
worked so hard to motivate us. We were to have a training meeting in
our home the night we returned but found out there was a Stake
training meeting so that got us off the hook.
One
Sunday a young lady came to church by mistake. Boy did we jump on
her! A young man friend of hers told her she should visit the Mormon
Church, but she got the wrong building. She was really friendshipped
and in the Gospel Principles class she asked all kinds of questions.
Luckily the Elders were in our ward that day and they took over.
“Golden?” Yes! Julie was a delightful young lady and stayed in
our ward until after her baptism. We taught her the last new member
discussion. We missed her after she started going to her own ward.
She married the young man in the temple and she has kept in touch
with us for many years.
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Loren's baptism |
Lynette
was another delightful young lady, divorced with a small daughter,
that we were able to teach the discussions too. She was baptized and
later we were able to go to the temple with her and see her sealed to
a young divorced man and see their two young daughters sealed to
them. What a sweet experience seeing those two adorable little girls
become sisters.
Ricks College Gardens | |
Well
there we went again, this time to Rexburg for Loren’s baptism on
July 1st. We stayed a few days and enjoyed touring the
Ricks College Campus and the beautiful campus gardens. Melynda was
going to school there worked in the greenhouse and planted a lot of
the flowers. The way I love flowers, it was so fun seeing all the
different blooms that I didn’t have. We stayed through the Fourth
of July and went to the parade with them. Later we had a picnic in
the park and that evening watched the fireworks at the fairgrounds.
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Kyle and Kellie: Sundance Kids |
I
went to Salt Lake with Connie and the children. Connie had a lot of
fun things planned. Lagoon, The zoo, the Heber Creeper, Sun Dance
Resort in Provo Canyon, etc, We stayed in a motel, which was fun for
the kids. Another three fun filled days and then back to Burley for
the Frost Family Reunion that was held August the 5th.
Turners were in charge, I don’t have any other information or
newsletters from that year. But knowing the Turner’s it had to be a
good one. Of course we had to stay and take in the Cassia County Fair
and Rodeo before returning home. I was told that on a Stake Mission
you have too many distractions. How True!
We
were very happy when Michael got out of the service the end of the
month. He had served in Kuwait during Desert Storm in the Prussian
Gulf War .
Oh
my Gosh! I almost forgot to tell you that we are going to be
great-grandparents. Raydon and Colby were expecting after two years
of marriage. I thought they were too young, too immature and too
selfish to be parents and I was right.
Emil’s
daughters did not treat Melody and Emil like parents. Adelma had
three or four children, and Emily had Thomas and Melody, Melody was
killed in an automobile accident along with one of her children. We
never got to know any of them, except for Thomas. So it was hard to
claim them as grandchildren but we claim Thomas.
Okay,
so our missionary work got a little slow, no co-operation from the
ward. So we started working on our neighbors across the street, the
Asins, (only they didn’t know about it). We took them to a Relief
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With Bob Asin at Shoshone Falls | |
Society dinner at church and they were really made to feel welcome.
We had the Elders over for a barbecue and asked Doris and Bob over,
telling them the Elders would be there. The Elders gave them a copy
of The Book of Mormon. We got tickets for a stage musical at the
Boise State University Special Events Center put on by the Boise LDS
Institute. If I remember right, the performance was “Joshua”, any
way we all enjoyed it very much. We have had them over for dinners
and barbecues, and they like wise have had us over.
We
also took them to see Shoshone Falls. Since they were from
California, they had never been there. At that time the water was
running full bore and was absolutely breathtaking. We also stopped
and viewed the Malad River Gorge and Falls.
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With Jack's cousin, Muriel |
Jack
was just elated to find a second cousin living in Lafayette,
Louisiana. While getting some names on his mother’s side ready for
their temple work, he found that a lot of the work had been done in
1982. With further checking, he obtained the submitter's name and
wrote her a letter. Four days later he received a phone call from
Muriel Roberts of Lafayette finding out that their grandmothers were
sisters, which made them second cousins. They each thought that they
were they only Mormons on that side of the family. She had traced
their ancestors all the way back to the Mayflower and back to
England.
In
October we went to Spokane, Washington to meet Muriel Roberts. She
had a son living there and she was visiting his family that weekend.
She and Jack had a wonderful reunion, even though as for as they
knew, they had never meet, except for the possibility of when
children in Seattle. They exchanged a lot of family information and
photos. John and Heather welcomed us into their home. Jack and Muriel
hit it off just like cousins should.
We
went to Malta where Jack photographed the wedding of our niece
Corinne Harper to Burke Udy . It was a beautiful back yard wedding
and Corinne looked just beautiful. The fun thing was that we got to
be the first to see the wedding pictures and they all turned out
beautiful!
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With Kellie and Kyle on our tour of Boise | |
During
the summer we had a lot of guests come and go. Kellie and Kyle were
here a lot. We did so many fun things; spent time at Kathryn
Albertson Park, blew giant soap bubbles, made ghosts and painted
pumpkins. We took a train ride tour of Boise, rode paddle boats on
the lake in the park, explored the Discover Center had the most fun
right here in our back yard.
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Kellie
and Jeremy both had their 13th birthdays. Sometime during
the busy summer I even had my 69th insignificant birthday.
Gordy, who started going by Glen, had his 16th Halloween
birthday. Halloween came and went and we had lots of little trick or
treaters. We even drove up to McCall to see the scarecrows placed all
over town. After Halloween, Livi also had her 13th birthday.
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Thanksgiving 1995 | |
For
Thanksgiving our special guests was Gordon and Bonnie and their
family from Rexburg. What made it so special, they seldom get here,
and Clyde. We had the traditional Thanksgiving dinner they stayed
over for a few days so we had time for fun.
We
celebrated our 17rd Once Upon a Time wedding anniversary
by reaching out for each other’s hands and our life together is our
happily ever after. We always buy something nice for our home. That
has been a traditional throughout our married years. As usual, we
dressed in our finest clothes to go to a very fine restaurant, The
Chart House, for a very fine dinner, also a Once Upon a Time
tradition.
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For
our Frost Family Christmas dinner we got to go to Monroe, Utah on
December 6th . All of us Frost kids and our mates were
there except Don and Irma. We got up and left before 9:00 a.m. to go
to the Manti Temple. What a thrill it was to all be in the Lord’s
House together and do a session together. All 14 of us except for
Eunice and Earl were in the Prayer Circle. The temple president
noticed us and as we was having lunch he offered to take us on a
tour, and up the beautiful spiral staircase, all 151 steps, into the
beautiful sealing room in the tower, explaining historical facts
pertaining to the temple to us. People are not permitted up there but
he took us because he was impressed by us all being there as a
family. What a spiritual time for me. It really set the Christmas
Spirit for me.
We
had a wonderful dinner at the lovely Jackson home. Renee’s young
boys were our waiters. They were so cute with the towels over their
arms just like any fancy restaurant; they were so cute. Then came the
fun part of opening our gifts to each other. I am not sure where
everyone else slept but we were there first and had our territory
marked! It was a wonderful prelude for the Christmas Holiday to
follow.
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The missionaries at Christmas | |
We
both had our 69th Birthdays that year. We go to the
restaurant of our choice for our Birthday dinner.
Christmas
Day we had dinner for the Missionaries, I am not sure how many, and
of course Clyde. Jack went and got them early and I gave them their
giant Christmas stockings full of packages. Like I said earlier,
they acted like little kids on Christmas morning. To think about it
they were! It was a great day and Jack returned them to their
apartment later in the day. We don’t see our own families for
Christmas anymore because they all have their own family Christmases.
Thus
ended another very wonderful, happy year in my journey through this
worldly life! I am so thankful for each of my family members and my
lifelong friends. I am so grateful for my noble knight and for the
love and caring that we share for each other. I am so grateful for my
knowledge of the Plan of Salvation; that we are God’s children and
that we do belong to God’s Church on earth! We are living happily
ever after each day of our lives.
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