Oh
my goodness! I almost forgot to mention that we became
great-grandparents! On April 30, at 8:45 am Raydon and Colby had a
darling little girl named Lacoya Dawn Cardenas. She was 7 pounds 6
ounces with long black hair and black eyes. I called her our little
Lamanite. She was blessed in to the Church of Jesus Christ of
Latter-day Saints by her grandfather Tim Dudley in Rupert. We got to
go and Jack was able to stand in on the blessing.
Connie
kissed Wal-Mart off as a losing career with no chance for
advancement. She made up her mind that she wanted to sell insurance
for Farm Bureau. It was a tuff business but with determination and a
lot of mind boggling studies and tests here in Boise, each time she
had to take the test over it cost her $60.00, she finally passed and
went to work as an insurance agent.
On
June 29th Connie's kids came and we went to the river
festival again. Jack wasn’t enthused about it so as usual he took
us down town and dumped us off. There was something going on all day
long and then the lighted floats after dark and fabulous fireworks.
When it was over, we called Jack and told him where we were so he
could come and get us. I don’t know if this was the time, but on
one occasion I got very tired and little Kyle said, “I think we
broke Grandma”. He was right!
Kellie
came to Boise for her 14th birthday and baked her own
cake. Cindee came and she and I spent a great day touring beautiful
Kathryn Albertson Park (one of my favorite places in Boise) and went
shopping. I don’t think I even mentioned in all these stories how
much I love flowers. Well I do, and I don’t even know which one is
my favorite.
| With two classmates: Marjory Bunn Warwood and Helen Wixom Ivie |
How
time flies by, that year on July 27th was my 50th
Class Reunion. I was asked to design the program cover. I don’t
know who got me into it, but after a lot of discarded ideas I did
come up with a real nice one. (The class ahead of us copied it for
their next reunion, so I guess it was good.) I had a great time
mingling with my good old buddies from yesteryear that I hadn’t
seen since I left school many years ago. (Girls can be buddies too
you know!) I haven’t missed a reunion since, and each year they are
better.
The
Frost Family Reunion was on August 10th at the Unity Ward
recreation area. Gerald and Verlee were in charge and had everything
planned something for everyone. There was a presentation by Shawn
Kay, who taught marshal arts. He demonstrated proven methods for a
person to protect themselves from assault, muggings and rape. It was
very enlightening to women and young girls. As usual there was the
annual dinner, games , drawing and visits. It was so good to see my
wonderful families.
On my 70th birthday | |
On
the 19th I had my 70th Birthday. That was one
birthday I was not looking forward to. Oh my gosh, 70! I could not
say the word seventy for months and months. I didn’t even want to
remember it, but I was glad to still be alive and healthy. On top of
that, I had to go and renew my driver’s license.
Two
down, two more to go; reunions that is. George and Becky with Chad
came from Minnesota and got in Boise Monday evening the 19th
and left on Wednesday morning for Seattle. We left on Thursday and
the reunion was on Sunday. It was wonderful, but nothing like our
Frost reunions. We don’t hold them on Sunday, nor do we have
beer!!!
| The Gilmour family reunion |
George
had arranged this reunion from Minnesota by phone with one of Pat’s
boys. Jason their oldest son flew into Seattle on Friday. Jack Jr.
and Aurora came from Sunnyvale California. Everyone else lives in
the Seattle area but for Louie and his daughter, who lived in Los
Angeles and was unable to be there. There were 26 people in
attendance with only two missing and two who were not invited. That
is the whole Gilmour family. Weird huh? What made it so special was
that George had not seen his cousins in over 20 years. How time
flies! Young Jack’s niece who he had not seen since they were kids
showed up. They grew up more like brother and sister. When all those
people meet for the first time after all those years it got just a
little emotional. We snacked all afternoon and had a big spaghetti
At Whidbey Island | |
dinner in the late afternoon. One of Pat’s five sons, Scott, is a
professional musician and plays in a band in Seattle. The guys
brought out the guitars and we all joined in the sing along.
It was fun music filled evening.
On
Friday Jack and I, George’s family, and Jack and Aurora all drove
over to Whidbey Island to see their aunt and uncle (Jack’s
ex-in-laws). I did not want to go, but it turned out okay. She had
fixed lasagna for dinner. Their home was right on the water, I
enjoyed the beach and was treated very nice. The drive over was
awesome. It was a cool trip.
We
drove back over to Seattle and left the next morning around 8:00 a.m.
and went by way of Shelton, Washington to visit Jack’s
brother-in-law, (George looks just like his uncle) then down to
Portland and stopped in to see a nephew that we had just seen. They
wanted us to see their new home. We left there and drove strait home
getting here at 3:00 a.m. Cindee, Connie and the kids stayed here
holding down the fort while we were gone. They took good care of the
yard and most of all my flowers.
We
just completed our third reunion for the summer with one more to go.
We went back to Seattle on the 14th of September, for
Jack’s 50th high school reunion. Jack and Pat decided
that since they had never been to any of their reunions, they would
go. They had a very good time and were surprised to still know so
many of their classmates after all those years. Time sure does fly.
| One fit 70 year old |
Joyce
Kieken from church talked me into running with her for the Idaho
Women’s Fitness Celebration. She saw me as I walked most every day
(that I was home) so thought I was fit enough to do the 5-K run. So
I did. It was a lot of fun. We had to be downtown in front of the
Capital very early for the lineup as we ran in waves. I think we were
in the yellow wave. I never saw so many women in one place in my
life, some were even in wheel chairs. It is the largest fitness group
in the nation and grows each year. Women come from all over the
nation to run in it. Of course I didn’t run, but I walked pretty
fast. The celebration ended at the finish point which was Ann
Morrison Park. There was all sorts of treats, healthy ones of course.
We all wore shirts with the logo printed on the front with all the
sponsors adds on the back. Joyce got back before me. Jack took us
down there and meet us at the park.
As
they were calling gals to the stage for different prizes, they called
for all women 70 and over. As I walked up there I was escorted
on stage by a handsome young man in a short pants tuxedo. Wow! All of
us that would admit our age got a cool medal. When I came off the
stage a woman from our ward was standing there and she said, “You
are not 70” I had to finally admit, “Yes, since the 19th
of last month!” That was the last time I said seventy for a long
time. Where did my 60’s go too, How Time Flies!
I
haven’t mentioned our missionary work for a while. We were still at
it. We had the Elders and Clyde over for dinners quite often. We went
to our training meetings, holding some of them in our home. We helped
with discussions and were always happy when we could go to the
baptisms.
Raydon
came with her aunt, Debby Egland for a ski sale that their boss was
into. They was here to sell his skis. Of course they brought baby
Lacoya and I got to tend her. She was then five months old and so
adorable. She was looking more like a sweet little papoose all the
time. I was so proud to show my first great granddaughter to all of
my friends. They had to admit that she was the cutest papoose they
had ever seen too. She was so good all the time she was here.
How
time flies! We grow older, our children grow older, and our
grandchildren grow older. There is no stopping it. Grandchildren
graduate from high school. Some go on missions for the church then go
to college and marriage. Some just go to college. Some go into the
service for our country. Some get married right away and others wait
longer for the wedding bells. I thought being a grandmother had aged
me, but a great-grandmother?
I
missed my grandchildren when they no longer had time to come around,
they start their own families and move to faraway places. They are so
busy we never get invited to their homes. When I am gone to the Great
White Castle in the Heavens, I know that none of them will even miss
me. How would they miss me when they really never knew me?
Here
I was a great-grandmother and still hiding my gray hair. I decided it
was time to quit fooling myself and fighting it and let it go and
just be gray. It took months for the color to grow out. I hated it! I
looked like someone else. That could not possible be me looking back
at me through the mirror. Well I put up with it for a while until one
day I ran back to my beautician and yelled, “Color me”! She
wasn’t surprised.
Kyle in his lion costume | |
Kyle
was in a play at the Heyburn Elementary School, one of Acsops Fables
called “The Lion and the Mouse”. He was the lion and needed a costume,
so who did me call on, his Grandma. I put my thinking cap and came up with
an Idea. After making a wild head of
yellow yarn hair and putting together a brown sweatsuit, he was the
cutest lion I had ever seen. We drove to Burley to see the play, it
was real cute and he did a good job.
| Fall leaves along the Snake River |
I
made time for a fall trip to Rexburg to visit the Buttars. They took
us on an outing of Eastern Idaho over to Palisades and a place where
we could overlook the Snake River. The fall colors were so brilliant
and in all shades from deep reds to orange, yellows and browns with a
little green here and there. We were able to get some wonderful
photos. The whole trip was so worth it. We didn’t get those colors
in the part of California that we lived and I missed them. We were
not able to stay for their Halloween which is one of their favorite
holidays or for Glen’s 17th birthday. The kids really
dress up in great costumes.
My kids (less Gordon) | |
We
celebrated our 18th Wedding Anniversary November 25th
all dressed up in our finest at our favorite high class restaurant
“The Chart House” on the river for an evening of fine dining with
just the two of us. Still very much in Love!
Thanksgiving
great! It was on the 28th that year. We had all of my
family here, except, the Buttars. A couple of weeks earlier, just a
couple days before her 14th birthday, Olivia had a seizure
and they were trying to figure out what had caused it. They ended up
taking her to Primary Children's Hospital in Salt Lake in December.
They never did find out why and she never had another one. We missed
them, but they were with us the year before. There were seventeen of
us sat down to dinner and when we were though there were very few
left over’s. The cousins had a good time getting acquainted and
playing with each other. We had guests from Wednesday at noon until
Sunday at noon. We were able to take a lot of great family pictures,
which were not complete without Gordon’s family. We were so
thankful for our family and that we could be together for that
Holiday
December
came with a full, fun schedule. After getting the house all dressed
up for Christmas, with mostly white lights, for the light of Christ,
we also dressed up the front yard with lights and our white nativity
set. This is a tradition for me. I have to decorate for the holidays
and keep them up until January 2nd. Jack was kept busy
cutting out the small sized yard reindeer for a craft project for the
Relief Society. 54 Reindeer added up to 378 pieces. He said he didn’t
count sheep when he went to sleep, he counted reindeer.
As
the month went: Monday night dinner and Christmas party with the
Owens’s family. Tuesday night was our Frost Dinner and Party
hosted by Lorna and Kenneth. We had the traditional dinner, opened
our gifts to each other, lots just plain old fashioned visiting, and
sharing the love. We must have stayed overnight there. Our family
parties or so much more fun than the Owens’s parties. Jack sneaked
in his 70th birthday. I think it is a sin to have a birthday so close
to Christmas. It is hard enough to decide on one gift let alone two.
|
A kid on Christmas morning |
Next
came the ward Christmas dinner and party. A Relief Society dinner
and next was a stake temple night, all before Christmas. When
Christmas finally arrived we had the Elders over and gave them their
stockings that I had made for them. As with the the Elders the
previous year, they acted like little kids. It was so much fun to
have them in our home. I know that our home is blessed by the Spirit
that they brought. For dinner we had Elders Locke and Jensen, Glen
and Ada Owens, and Clyde. The weather was fairly good, we had snow a
few days before but was gone, so we finally had a white Christmas.
New
Years Eve we celebrated watching TV and drinking sparkling cider
until we both fell asleep and let the New Year happen without us.
Thus, Time does Fly!